Thursday, March 4, 2021

Geez & Ann, a movie review

Okay, the main reason why I was thrilled to watch this movie is that the main actor, Geez. I like nerd-kind-of-guy and hmm, yeah, when I said nerd guy, it obviously refers to a handsome-nerd-guy. Lek jer, taste kita kan tak sama haha. 


They first met at the Alumni event; there was an unexpected blackout that occurred during the event, and Ann was one of the people in charge of the event. At that moment, as she was trying to fix the chaotic situation, she climbed off the ladder to turn on the switch or something. Moments later, she was about to fall and tada!!!! Geez saved her from the fall (cam biasalah, love at the first sight gaknya).Oh, yes, I forget to point out that Geez and his band are one of the performers in that event, that's why he was in the backstage.

First of all, their love story seems rushed??? I think it's because when they first met, Geez handed Ann his iPod and asked her to listen to and review the song he wrote. I mean, yall just met and talked not more than 30 minutes? 

In contrast to Geez, Ann was brought up by a loving, caring family; no family issues. Geez's parents had divorced, and he's now staying with his mother, who was extremely strict about his son's circle and education. Geez's mother was dying to send him to Berlin to study medicine. Haa here comes the problem, there was a day when Geez and Ann went out for a date, and then Geez's mother called asking for his whereabouts, but Geez said "bookstore" when he was actually on a date with Ann. Ann, being immature, suddenly burst out and said something like, "how can you have the audacity to lie to your mom?" WITHOUT first asking why he did so, is it hard to be honest with his mother? What upsets me more is that she was also mad when Geez told her he was going to study in Berlin. 

I WAS LIKE.. SIS, YOUR BOYFRIEND IS GOING THERE TO STUDY -_- 

The essence of this movie is that an immature partner will stress you out and ruin the relationship. 

I feel so annoyed when Ann upset that Geez took some time to reply to her texts. From my perspective, Geez did everything that he could to fix the situation and ensure that Ann is fine but Ann? She did nothing but complain. I would say that Ann never put any effort to understand Geez's struggle in handling his mother. Also, it was her that asked Geez to stop contacting her so that she can move on with her life but when Geez showed up after he finished his study in Berlin, she told Geez, "why must it be now? you should have come to me earlier." Astaghfirullah. Sakit hati saya dibuatnya, saudara-saudari sekalian. 

There are many components that you need to have a stable relationship, and maturity is the key. If you have an immature partner, they'll have difficulty understanding that you've got a busy schedule, so he or she'll keep whining about the simplest thing, like why you're online but don't answer them, why you're refusing to pick up a call, etc. It's so mentally draining to have a partner like this because they don't understand you. Whenever you try to explain the situation, they're going to cut you off and say that everything you say is just an excuse, and in the end, you're going to get frustrated because it's going to happen again and again. What's the point of having a partner, but they're not willing to understand your situation? 

If Ann were a mature partner, she will try to help Geez resolved his issue with his mother instead of getting upset about why Geez lied to his mother. If Ann were a mature partner, she would understand that Geez was busy with his study (study medicine kot, ko expect apa), hence it should be fine if Geez took some time to reply to her texts. If Ann were a mature partner, 4 years of long-distance-relationship would be fine. 

My advice to anyone who reads is to try your best to find a mature partner. A mature partner is going to try to understand you and help you grow. I don't agree when people think you need constant arguments in a relationship to make a relationship alive? Nah, this isn't for me. I would prefer stability, and whenever there is a problem, try to fix it as soon as possible. It's fine to be clingy but everything should be in moderation gituhhh. 

Rate: 2/5 - 2 is for Geez's face and character development. 
Would I recommend it? Yes, only if you wanna see how Ann ruined the precious relationship with her attitude.